Seduction-related psychopathy

Picking up ladies consists solely of mind games. Being successful and gorgeous do help, but you have to question how it is that average-looking men manage to date beautiful women.

Seduction-related psychopathy

Both Supreme Clothing and Hermes handbags were once or are now highly desired fashion items that people will go to any lengths to own. There are restricted releases that make it difficult to obtain and costly prices that cannot be justified, even if the quality is three times better than something that costs one-hundredth of the price. 

Why are they so beloved by humanity, then? Why do consumers put in such effort to support a business—waiting for the release, trying to have the fastest fingers, or spending hundreds of dollars to even be considered for a handbag? However, by doing this on purpose, the corporations stand to gain significantly. Why do you make an effort to convince a woman that you are a good option when you should be the one being pursued?

The approach

Approach the woman you wish to pursue, give a quick introduction, and then just launch into a random conversation. You might giggle as you both point out the awkward pair trying to get along and make comments on the decor of the place. It will mentally remove any uneasiness from the first meeting by giving her the impression that she has known you for years and is at ease with you.

Use nice body language, speak in the same voice as you would to your friends, and steer the conversation away from yourself at first. Additionally, this sends the message that you are not worried, you don't care what she thinks, you are not trying to brag or seem to be interested in her life, and it either works or it doesn't. You are not striving to persuade her because you have no interest in her point of view. She no longer has any influence on the court's side that she once did. You must therefore be special and different.

becoming hers

Have you ever wondered why certain women seem to be in relationships all the time? Some girls just stay in relationships with their partners for a long time and seem to move on as soon as they break them off. Your initial thoughts of her being average typically give way to feelings of affection when you chat with these women. 

You and the other men seem to fall in love with these women even though they are the same as any other women you have met. These women almost seem to be limited editions, much like the previously mentioned limited releases of clothing, and for some reason, when you see someone else with the thing that you know you can't have, it only seems better and better. 

The only problem is that everyone is aware that you cannot fulfill all of your desires. This example also applies to women who are interested in males; the more guys who want her, the more attractive she seems. You want the woman even though you cannot have her. If you're not constantly there for her, she'll desire you even more.

In actual life, this has quite simple uses. When you're trying to attract a woman, being unavailable will just make her want you more. Simply canceling a date you had planned or calling her back after hanging up demonstrates that you aren't always available when she needs you.

However, don't abuse this tactic; making yourself completely unavailable will simply make her lose interest. If you ever feel that a lady is playing you and is just keeping you on the hook, finding someone else swiftly can show that you aren't constantly available, as well as generate a sense of urgency when you are actually available.